Archive for April, 2009

Where can I find coupons for baby items online?

Posted in Shopping on April 30th, 2009 by admin – 5 Comments
Grace asked:


I’ve found a few different coupon sites, but they require registration (wanting to know everything but my underwear size, it seems) and once registered, I can’t find the coupons. I just want to be able to print off a coupon for Huggies or other baby stuff. Thanks in advance!

Turn Down the Heat to Turn Up the Savings

Posted in Education on April 29th, 2009 by admin – Be the first to comment
Debt Stoppers asked:


I’m a sunshine-loving California girl. So it should come as no surprise that this winter thing is a little hard for me to stomach. It’s freezing cold in the mountains where I live and though we haven’t had snow yet this year, the ski resorts are praying it will come soon. I, however, am not. If I could crawl in bed and hibernate a few months, I would.

Christmas is good motivation to make it through December, but once January hits, I’m dreaming of Hawaii. And in years past, our house has fittingly felt like paradise. I like to compare myself to a tropical fish – I do best at temps approaching 80 degrees. So I’d crank the thermostat well into the 70s. Friends would visit and it wouldn’t be long until they were stripped down to their T-shirts. Forget Christmas in July; this was July during Christmas.

Comfort came at a price, though: an astronomical heating bill, to be exact. Up until now, I didn’t mind too much. It was an extravagance, but it was important to me. This year, my significant other finally convinced me it might be time to embrace the cold and save our budget. Instead of setting the thermostat at 72 degrees (or higher if I’m really cold), we’re keeping it at about 65 during the day. At night, we turn it down to 60 (he’d like to keep it at 55 – or off – but I’m not ready yet). When we’re gone all day, we turn it off. We’ve been keeping up our chilly little experiment since October and so far our bills have been on average $50 lower.

I’m not sure how long I can keep it going (my teeth are chattering as I write this), but I’ve been taking a look at last month’s billing statement every time I waver. It helps. So do the layers upon layers of blankets and the down comforter on the bed.

If you’re not as thin-skinned as me, you might already be setting your thermostat pretty low. But you can still save some dough by kicking it down a little or turning it off when possible. Start with just one or two degrees, and if you can live with that, keep going until you reach your lowest comfort level. Of course, if you live up north or anywhere temperatures can drop dangerously low at night you should keep the thermostat while you sleep for safety, preferably at 55 degrees or more (if you can’t afford to heat the house, period, please bundle up so you don’t freeze!) You also don’t want to turn it off if you think the pipes in your house might freeze.

Benefits go beyond the heating bill. Because your house will be cooler, the refrigerator and freezer won’t have to work as hard, so you’ll use less energy. If you keep a real Christmas tree in your home this season, it won’t dry out as fast. You might even burn more calories staying a bit colder (OK, maybe this is just wishful thinking spurred by all the Christmas cookies I’ve eaten lately).

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Debt-The New American Slavery

Posted in Education on April 29th, 2009 by admin – Be the first to comment
Michael Mihalik asked:


Lately, an unusual phenomenon has been sweeping the United States. Although our country is known for the freedom it provides for its citizens, millions of Americans are willingly subjecting themselves to financial servitude-a form of slavery.

Financial servitude has a long history in the United States. In the 1600s and 1700s, it was very expensive for immigrants to come to America. Most immigrants didn’t have money for the trip, so they would find an American benefactor to pay their way. To pay off the debt once they arrived in America, the immigrants would work for up to 8 years in “indentured servitude” to their benefactors. Both parties benefited from this arrangement. The benefactors gained laborers and apprentices for their businesses, and the immigrants would soon have the freedom to pursue opportunities in the New World.

Today, Americans have rediscovered financial servitude. This time, however, we do not subject ourselves to servitude to find opportunity in the New World, but for new shoes, fancy dinners, expensive cars, and stainless steel appliances. Through credit cards, home equity loans, and other forms of debt, we borrow money until our bills determine when and how much we work-often at jobs we don’t even like.

Americans used to avoid debt, but lately we have been persuaded to embrace it. The process starts early-high school and college students receive pre-approved credit cards although their only income comes from babysitting or mowing their neighbor’s lawn. We are encouraged to borrow money to buy everything from groceries and clothing to cars and houses. Debt has become an accepted part of our everyday life.

The result? In August 2006, United States consumer debt reached an all-time high of $2.35 trillion*, real estate foreclosures are soaring nationwide**, and millions of Americans are struggling to make ends meet. Americans are under a level of financial stress that hasn’t been seen for generations.

It is time we reclaimed control of our money and our lives. But how?

I turn to my personal experiences for the answer. I know the agony and despair of being burdened by a paralyzing amount of debt. I also know what it’s like to triumph over that same debt.

When I was in college, I used debt to finance a lifestyle that I couldn’t afford. I used credit cards to buy CDs, an expensive bicycle, skis, stereo equipment, clothes, dinners for my dates, concert tickets, and airplane tickets.

I expected that once I graduated and began work as an aerospace engineer, I would quickly pay off my debt. It didn’t work out that way. Instead of using my new salary to pay off debt, I moved into a house with some friends and upgraded to a more expensive car. I also continued buying fancy dinners to impress the girls and taking costly trips.

It wasn’t long before my paychecks didn’t last as long as my bills. I ran out of money long before payday. I was in trouble. I sat down with a stack of my bills and added up how much I owed. I was shocked at the total. I was 24 years old and sunk into despair because I saw no way of paying off my debt before I was 40. At night, I’d wake up in a panic, worried about my future.

After a period of feeling helpless and depressed, I became determined to come up with a plan to pay off my debt. I read books about personal finance, created a budget, and tried to stick to it. However, I had limited success and my debt continued to grow.

I realized that I was unsuccessful at controlling my finances because before I could change the way I handled money, I had to change the way I thought about money. I began creating a money philosophy that transformed the way I looked at money and made it possible for me to pay off my debt and regain control of my finances and my life. My philosophy was based on 10 lessons and ideas.

The first lesson?

Debt is slavery.

For some people, the idea equating debt to slavery is extreme. But while I was paying off my debt, I went to work every day not because I wanted to, but because I had to. I owed a lot of money to a lot of people. If I didn’t go to work, I wouldn’t be able to pay my bills, my car would be repossessed, and my life would be in ruins.

I had to go to work because of the things I bought using credit-my car, my bicycle, the long-gone dinners and last year’s ski trips. I also didn’t have the freedom to take advantage of opportunities. I had to turn down a chance to go on a three-month trip around Europe because I couldn’t afford both the cost and the time off from work.

I had become a slave to my debt.

After I realized that debt is slavery, every time I was tempted to pull out my credit card, I thought “Borrowing money makes me a debt slave.” That idea alone gave me the strength to stop accumulating debt, which made it easier to for me to pay off my debt.

So the next time you pull our your credit card to buy something, remember-debt is slavery. Stop borrowing money, concentrate on paying off your debt, and maybe your period of financial servitude will shorter than the 8 years of our immigrant ancestors.

*Federal Reserve Statistical Release G.19. Consumer Credit. 6 Oct. 2006

**Coolidge, Carrie. “Nightmare on Elm Street.” Forbes 21 Sept. 2006


I booked a romantic ski vacation for my husbands birthday. Now he wants to leave me?

Posted in Entertainment on April 29th, 2009 by admin – 5 Comments
mrs.bigtits asked:


Weve been together for 4 years, and I thought it would be a great surprise since he works all the time. He says i should have saved the money, and he has debt to pay off and cant go on vacation! Im distraught…my intentions were for him to relax, and instead now he thinks we should divorce and have different goals in life!

What is a good site to find free grocery coupons?

Posted in Shopping on April 29th, 2009 by admin – 4 Comments
Luis asked:


My mom has recently asked me to look online to find some coupons, but the sites I’ve been to only have certain coupons or you need to sign up to the site in order to look at the coupons, and I don’t want to sign up because then I have to give up my email and then who the heck knows what they’ll do with it.